Every so often, you need to take a step back. It can do wonders for your work, your health, and your sanity.
But let’s be honest—I’ve never been great at it.
Two months ago, my world changed when my mom passed away suddenly, and I found myself navigating the heavy reality of loss. From working with my sister to plan memorials, sell a home and figure out how to manage 60 years of my parents’ passion for collecting American Folk Art, there were so many “death-adjacent” activities to tackle.
In the midst of it all, I made one promise to myself: no LinkedIn posts for two months.
Here’s what I did instead, and what helped me:
🕰️ Dove into streaming shows
Maybe “Squid Game” wasn’t the most soothing choice—it’s not exactly lighthearted—but it helped pull me out of my own head. “Shrinking” was another gem, and it offered moments of great humor.
🕰️ Rediscovered podcasts
I leaned on my favorites and stumbled upon “Acquired.” Their episodes on Hermès and Costco were incredible—two completely different stories but both captivating in their own ways.
🕰️ Spent time with family and good friends
I leaned into conversations with loved ones, both old friends and new. Grief is universal, and hearing how others have coped reminded me that, while loss tears pieces of our hearts, we are not alone.
🕰️ Learned to say no
While I jumped into the deep-end of my work, I gave myself permission to decline invitations to parties or events where I’d need to be “on.” My friends, colleagues, and clients understood completely, and it was a relief to honor what I needed in the moment.
I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have concerns.
Would the LinkedIn algorithm gods punish me for my absence?
Would my other friends forget me?
Would I spiral into depression?
None of that has happened…yet.
So here’s my own take-away: sometimes, stepping away is the best thing you can do. And if there’s a broader lesson in this, it’s that authenticity matters. It’s one of the three core elements of trust, alongside competency and empathy (a little nugget from research I’ve been diving into lately).
So to the LinkedIn algorithm: I’m sorry I’ve been away, but I hope you understand. It’s what I needed.
To those reading this: thank you for being here. Two of the folk art pieces from the 1800s are in the photo: a trade sign for an eyeglass store, and one for a jewelers.
